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- When
is it best to really commit and stay with something
or when is it better to let go and seek new options?
- When
is it appropriate to analyze and look closely into something
and when is it better to make a decision and just do something?
- When
is it useful to give in to experiencing our emotions deeply
and when is it better to detach and observe them from a distance?
- When
is it better to work with the dynamics of a relationship and
when is it better to withdraw and work on oneself?
- When
is it better to seek pleasure and when is it better to seek
meaning?
- When
is it better to take charge and assert ourselves and when
is it better to be passive and receptive to what may come
our way?
- When
is it better to work with the body and when is it better to
work with the imagination? And when is it better to just let
things be?
These are
only some of the choices we need to make moment to moment in our
lives. Most of these choices are made automatically without even
knowing it. These automatic decisions and the actions that follow,
are some of the primary ways we define the kind of person we are.
They are qualities
of our personalities that we can appear to have no choice about.
Much of the time this is fine. The habitual ways we have of handling
things work well for us. That is why we have learned them in the
first place. However, there arise situations that we aren't happy
with, habitual ways of reacting that are problematic. They may
have worked for us at one time, but not longer do.
Becoming aware
of these patterns of response and how they function can be one
of the first steps in discovering new options, and exercise greater
freedom in creating a more meaningful and pleasurable life.
This information
on the Enneagram was taken from classes conducted by Eric Lyleson
M.A.
For more information
on the Enneagram, go to Useful
Links or Recommended
Reading.